Perhaps you remember being attracted to certain songs as a teenager. Perhaps it spoke to you at a deeper level than your parents could understand. Maybe you didn’t understand it. Today’s teens are no exception. Their mysterious connection to Music is as strong as ever.
How do Music influence teenagers’ emotions and behavior? Music allows teens to explore their emotions and thoughts in a safe environment. They can also use Music to express themselves without the need for words. Teens can learn to cope with stressful situations by listening to Music and exposing themselves to positive influences. Teens also find Music helps them connect with other people and feel connected.
Although it can be difficult to see Music that isn’t up to standard as a positive influence on your teen’s lives, it is possible. Music can teach kids a lot, even if parents don’t immediately see its value. Understanding how Music influences teens’ emotions, behaviors, and behavior can help us better understand and guide them to happier lives.
The Power of Music
It has been extensively studied how Music can evoke strong emotions, imagery, and ideas. Dr. Jonathan Burdette explains the strong (and visible) effects of Music on the brain in the article “Music has Powerful and Visible Effects on The Brain”. He says, “Music is primordial. It affects us all but in our unique ways. Although your experience with Music may be different from mine, it is still powerful.
Because of their fast-changing emotions, teens are particularly sensitive to the power of Music. However, that doesn’t mean they have to be negative.
Music can have a profound impact on the brain. It doesn’t matter what genre it is. Many studies have been done to determine how Music affects thoughts and behavior. Research has taken so much that there is now a formula to make popular music.
How can we use the power of Music to reach our teens?
Popular Music is influenced by the desire to belong. Teens find it more appealing to listen to a song or a particular artist when they are in the spotlight.
Teens publicly show their appreciation by displaying their merchandise and thereby establishing themselves as part of a larger peer group. Even though they may not like the music, they do it to get approval and acceptance. It can be good or bad. However, the outcome will depend on how parents react to it.
It doesn’t matter if you like the band or song. It can be used to connect with your teen and share an appreciation for it.
But, protesting a song or band loudly will only encourage your teen to be more open to it. Accept that it is part of their lives, and find ways to recognize its value.
Instead, tell stories about your childhood. Perhaps your parents made fun of your music choices or made you feel guilty. You can share this with your teenager. They will see that you don’t make the same mistakes again, and they’ll be able to recognize this as a positive, respectful response even if they never say them.
You can gain their trust by verbally accepting their music choices. You may find that they are more open to discussing their reasons for joining the bandwagon. A simple conversation can help you open up to peer pressure and the dangers of conforming to society’s expectations.
Safety in Music
Children often use Music to release tension and express their emotions in a nonverbal manner. While teens aren’t quite as powerful as toddlers, they have limitations that can lead to frustration.
Music is a popular way for teens to get rid of scary emotions. Teens can express anger or aggression towards others through Music.
Without putting your family in danger of causing more problems, you can’t make a parent’s “unfair” rule.
A teenager may decide to lock themselves in their bedroom after a rough day and blast some aggressive music. Perhaps they were teary-eyed, ignoring your questions and running around the house. You could hear a breakup song’s sad, heartbreaking sounds from their earbuds.
These clues will tell you if your teen is living outside your control. Teens can use Music to get rid of the emotions they have held onto all day. This is a healthy way to cope. Your teen may feel more powerful emotions through the songs, but they are using Music to help them deal with feelings that might be confusing or embarrassing.
Connect with Emotional Music
Depending on the personality of your teen and your history with heart-to-heart talks, you may be able to get some information from them. Don’t force the subject if they are resistant. You can ask them about the Music. Ask them what they love about the Music, what the lyrics are, and even request to see a video.
Your kid may not be ready to share with you what is bothering him, but by showing you the lyrics and the video, you might be able to hear their thoughts without having to use words. Be there for them. To help them feel less alone, focus on the Music and find ways to relate.
Because life can be stressful, everyone needs to take a step back from the daily grind. It’s easy for teens to become stressed out in our rush to finish work, take care of the kids, and run the household. Peer pressure can make school difficult, making it hard to get along with your family, and even your beloved pet can become a problem on bad days.
It is possible to listen to music while driving or riding the train to work. It can be a great way to get away from the world and distract yourself. Children do the same thing, and for the same reasons.